I saw it on his pc. You can do this! I dont think my narc will even return either. Both marriages required me to sign a prenup since he was well off and owned a business. Listen to me on this , love had never been cheap and never will be its not in the air as we welcome everyone by curiosity as someone should be our one . It Kinda hurts but, playing with his head when he is trying to play with mine is fun, like a chess game. there were up and downs.. mostly it was hell. I told him not to call or text me. I believed and gave him the information needed and in three days my husband came back to me. Im going through the same thing.. the only thing I have found is to be best.. is only text communication.. when its needed to communicate at all. No way I can trust someone who could always produce bad fruit. I thought to myself can someone be this outright disordered in his thinking or was it done deliberately as punishment since I cut him off for 7 months? I felt so bad for creating so much distance between them. What makes narcissists is my question. What intrigued me or got my attention about your post is the fact that you mentioned Pornography! He was so beautiful in person. The youngest child is now 18. So your goin going to F**k lets be real ! Im in the breakup phases and almost to the point of a restraining order. It crept up on me, i tried to not let it effevt me but it did. Narcissist or what? Awh, sweet justice. But if both parties can come to a fair and just agreement, the end result is far more satisfying. If I break the No Contact rule in any way shape or form it will feed his addiction, I will have become supply again. I told her I thought she was a narcissist after all of the behavior and reading it up online and talking to friends that are psych majors. I have not heard from him. Ive read this post a few times and havent left a comment until now. I hope I can do this and stick to it. Ill be praying that God fights this battle for us by providing a miracle or helps us to disappear from his life for good. Your ex will work hard to pollute the waters and paint you black to your co-workers, family, friends and anyone else who will lend their ears. In a way, their loss (being with the narcissist) is your gain. Its not just being in love w himself. My boyfriend left me for another girl. I kept it from friends and family, he would come over and have dinner with me and the kids then leave to go to his undercover job. If your no contact does succeed, youre not quite out of the woods. but while woman stress thier ideas online or too friends men arnt so privvy too it. I havent given him a second thought in more than 6 months, but I am sure he will think about me every day for the rest of his life. The man is a Narcissist and a sex addict. Your best bet is to ignore them the way they ignored you earlier. he would use other women to make me feel jealous. hi I read your experience and Im so sorry to hear this. old. I spent alot of time alone, when he came home he would eat, shower and fall asleep then a few hours later he would be on the road again and again I would be alone. Asked if I could pay for the ticket or he could not afford to see me. We divorced. Being more focused on themselves, perhaps they will think "good riddance" and not react much to the end of a troubled partnership. Its a whole mind f@ck of reality. I managed to find enough strength to reach out to a neighbour for help. You are absolutely justified in being concerned about how a narcissist will react to a breakup. PTSD Among Ukrainian Civilians in the Russia-Ukraine War, Wolves With a Parasite Become More Daring, Study Shows, Sensory Issues Often Have Overlooked Consequences, Teen Mothers: When Stigma Trumps Compassion (and Research). thats the trap. I became a huge blowout among family members and him because they finally realized that he had been lying to them the whole time and had been telling them all different lies and versions of it. You can do this too! Later that same month he did not come home and called me that he wanted a divorce, I asked what I did wrong to deserve this from him, everything he was saying he wants a divorce that hates me and does not want To see me again in His life, I was crazy and also frustrated I do not know what to do, I was sick for more than 2 weeks due to divorce. I had to get a protection order and hes been charged with telephone harassment. Like anybody else, someone with narcissistic personality is able to fall in love. I know I am being very insensitive with my comments but what this woman needs is a wake up call. Anyone who's lived through it will tell you that living with a narcissist is a nightmare. Its getting scary, and that is an understatement by far. Thanks for the great insight, Its been three painful years breaking up from an extremely abusive relationship. He patted my sons head and said, Dont worry, we will find a good home for you. Like wow! That men are being emotionally abused in this area With virtually no help to understand what could be happening to them . get out.. while you can.. its a lot harder to do later on.. when you have years into your unemployment or lack there of. I ended the relationship by filing for divorce, but co-parenting and visitation prevent me from having NO CONTACT. I met him almost 2 years ago. It sounds like you sent a very clear message. Narcs supporting and colluding with narcs. I am glad that I found this post..im in the middle of getting out of the relationship..all your comments somehow ease my pain Thanks to the writer and everyone who made a comment..wish me luck guys!!! I think a lot of younger women get in relationships with older narcissistic men because many of them look younger than their age and many, my friend in particular lies about his age. Cynthia, What you said about yourself hit me like a sledge hammer. Its amazing to find posts like these. I have a question, I am currently dealing with the break up of my psychopathic/narcissistic babys father. Well he never saw our son until he was 8 months old. You can only imagine what life was like with someone, with behavior like that! I called him and asked did we have sex last night and his reply was, Did we have sex? I have been rejected by my husband after 5 years of marriage just because another woman had evil spell on him and he left me and the kids to suffer. They most often come back after ending the relationship. I think he is so obsessed with everyone being attracted to him he doesnt care if nits a man or a woman! He acted the same way, with the mother of his daughterwhen I was married to him. No remorse. He was out for HIMSELF. And saying things like you like this. Just before the trip ended, she abused me and became aggressive when I mentioned to her about her ex. This is how you treat my gifts ! Romantic breakups can be hard on anyone, but our reactions to breakups can vary quite a bit. No. This is spiritual warfare. My ex & I met while working in the ministry for crying out loud! They of course, believed their dad as he was very convincing to them and of course as you know kids are impressionable. The only good that came out of my going back was that I needed to find myself that low that I could pull myself up and cut him off for good with no remorse. Slowly but surely my daughter after all her life is beginning to see things,differently as she now is starting to understand the rejection when he will forfeit his visitation time with her at the drop of a dime to attend to his own selfish needs. I had no idea that I was with a narcissist until I left him! Once I had proof, I discovered he wasnt just having an affair but had got this girl pregnant. This situation has left me thinking perhaps I should place him for adoption and sever ties with his father. Looked a bit older. And I did! Me being weak. After that, I was literally on the roller coaster of hell for the remaining of the relationship until I finally walked away a few months ago. I contacted him and he told me what to do and i did it then he did a (return Love spell) for me. I felt violated. It is a more hostile and defensive aspect of narcissism that involves denigrating other people. Ill never know. Its no different, but worse, 5, 10, 15 years in. I just want to see if anyone here has similar experience and share your views on how to really have a clean break with a npd wife when you have kids and business together. He makes me feel crazy! Its so creepy he would just want.to stare into me for ages and i felt so uneasy He will be back in 8 weeks telling me yet again Im his soulmate .. Have my sole on the back of your head! A psychological evaluation was conducted during our last custody case and he was found to have a Personality Disorder with narcissistic, paranoid, and anti-social traits. to truly understand Narcs check out Sam VAknin on youtube. I never even thought of going back to him, i was done ..had enough of him! As time went on, I started, to have many insecurities, fears and doubts about his love for me and, my attitude and moods began to change as a result. Finding out that that I have NPD has been an eyeopener and I have been seeking professional help for it. your life truly depends on itand if you have children please please get out so they can have a chance at a functional life you nor they may not see it now but just like I never thought I would I Thank GOD everytime I encounter that demonic empwhich is often. I sure would love to know either way. When you're with a narcissist, they're very good at keeping your focus on them. Psychologists often refer to emotions like anger as externalized negative emotions. Well. When those run out, they come looking for more. Should You Block the Narcissist on Facebook? Let her know that eventually she will get tired of living life the way she is living it. Maybe I will loose my life. .. Its vital to take the time to COMPLETELY HEAL. I felt like my life was about to end, and was falling apart. I have no kids and a good well paying job. Everything was so perfect and good between us. ON HER OWN> I stayed away, ALTHOUGH it was hard. Paul, I can really see where the problem here lies. this is not a SPAM post like the one below. It's safe to say when you began this relationship, you had no idea that your SO was a narcissist. I didnt want to face what I had allowed. As much as I wanted to respond, I would walk away or simply state that I was not going to argue. Here is the final word I am now 76 years old and still working as a nurse part time to survive. No! Well come to find out they are cameras Both the charger and the clock So we get I. He told me he would take me ring shopping and we would settle down and have a baby together. They were also more likely to initiate a breakup and attribute it to their lack of interest in their ex. They may have found a new source of supply but had a falling out with them and now they need something from you. Please help with any advice you can offer. Furthermore, Im quite sure he did not mean what he said, although convincing Im sure, he was so jelous (for lack of a better word) of your abilities that he HAD to denegrate, devalue even destroy you to maintain his fictitious imageof his own perfection. He didnt even show any care when i told him the facts and that why im breaking up. Narcissists can never miss you after a breakup because they are incapable of emotions like that. All i can say now is thanks to Dr.KATE, if you need any help from him contact him with this email omozokpialovetemple@outlook.com, he is a very powerful spell caster. Anyway, he told me he wanted to get married again and do the right thing, get into the church (family is in the church) yada yada yada. Anyway, its been 9 months. If genetic factors are involved nothing helps. A few months later, Ju told me that her relationship with her partner is over and she will be loyal to me I felt somewhere that it was my fault and was abit sad. He loves pegging and porn on methvery rarely would even attempt to satisfy me. Hurt. Only because its fun to predict his actions and counter them, leaving him frustrated and leaving (This has happened twice). He studied at the University of Amsterdam and has a bachelor's in Clinical Psychology. Really, for anyone out there experiencing the same thing and finding it hard, thinkif they are so happy in themselves and with their lives and the new fantastic girlfriend why are they still getting in touch with you. Youve been through a very traumatizing experience and this will cause you future issues if not dealt with. @ Paul, I wasnt dumped, he wouldnt have dared have left his woman who he totally controlled on every level.I was with him for 12 years, suffered extreme abuse..of all types from him, he wasnt getting any better, only worse. No cure for such souls? Unfortunately i was so unlucky and could not dig up any dirt. I see the criticism but not any words as to correction. 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